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One to press, and what is missing.

Only what is genuinely open. Each press is written down before it shows a mark, and a press that fails to save says so.

Ruled already: the road for somebody who cannot find $400 is set down for now, and the room rule keeps its shape with the number taken out until you give me the real one.

The Vow, Kept

A solution rather than a question. Love, Always has checked every part of this against their own code.

ITOSHIGO writes the vow. Love, Always keeps it and hands it over. Three of the four parts already stand there: a child with no name and no address yet, a day that can move right up until it opens, and your own ruling — the parent owns it until they give it to the child, or has it printed for the wall.

One vow, one of them writes it down, both their names on the face of it. That leaves their world exactly as it stands. The one who wrote it hands it to the child. If they die, the other parent can — named on the night the vow is written, while the two of them are standing there together. Without that one name, a vow could sit for sixteen years in a bureau nobody is able to open.

It sits inside the $400. Keeping the vow is what ITOSHIGO sells, rather than an extra on top of it, and that price is yours and already set.

An afternoon to build. That estimate is Love, Always’ own, given as one seat’s estimate rather than as anything settled.

What ITOSHIGO promises today Open it
Two of your worlds joining, built the way described above.

Love, Always would hold this for sixteen years. Should anything pass between the two worlds for the holding of it?

The gift letter, and the giver's own words

This is the letter as it actually arrives. It carries no price, and it says somebody who loves them held a place. What it cannot do yet is carry a line from the giver in their own hand.

The letter, as it arrives Open it
Should the letter carry a sentence from the person who gave it, in their own words, exactly as they wrote it?

The Hopes In The Sky

These are the ones rising on the entrance. Thirty for you to keep or strike, one press each, and room for your own underneath. The sky takes only the ones you keep.

I want them to feel loved every single day

I hope they never doubt they were wanted

I want them to know their voice matters

I hope they are braver than me

I want them to feel at home in their own skin

I want them to know a home where nobody shouts

I hope they find what lights them up

I want them to be kind more than clever

I want them to know it is safe to cry here

I want them to know they can tell me anything

I hope they always come back to us

I want them to see us holding hands

I want them to have a big life

I want them to grow up unafraid to be different

I want them to feel chosen

I hope they laugh the way my dad did

I want them to know where they came from

I want to be their soft landing

I want to be someone they feel safe with

I want them to see the world with wonder

I want them to feel our love before they have words for it

I want to keep them close and let them go

I want them to know how to say sorry, and how to forgive

I hope they grow up gentle and strong at once

I want them to be free

I want them to have friends who love them for who they are

I want to be the calm in the room

I want to hear what they make of the world

I hope I recognise them

I want them to know we both tried

And The Fears Beside Them

Fifteen, said in the small hours. The first six are yours. Keep or strike, and the sky carries what you keep.

How hard can it be?

I'm terrified

Life won't change that much.

Will I be any good at this

What if I get it wrong

Am I ready

What if I don't feel it straight away

I'm scared of the birth

I keep waking at three

What if I turn into my father

What if we stop seeing each other

I'm frightened of losing myself

What if I can't do this on no sleep

What if I'm not enough for them

What if I get it wrong when it counts

One of your own, in your words, and it goes straight into the sky.

The Business, Plainly

AMAE sells for $400 and that is yours and set. Two of the four ways this world earns have never had a number, and one of them is the road that reaches past a room in Melbourne.

A facilitator pays you an amount to begin and a fee each year. Nobody can work out what that should be until one figure exists, and it has never been asked of you. AISHITERU’s licence works at $36,000 because a practitioner there charges $2,800 a couple. AMAE is $400, so this one wants its own number, worked back from what a facilitator actually earns.

How many rooms could one facilitator realistically run in a year? Every part of the licence follows from this one figure.

MIMAMORU is half of ITOSHIGO and it is one page of writing. It has no price and no build behind it. AMAE is the ceremony; MIMAMORU is the years after it, and today a family who finishes AMAE has nowhere to go.

MIMAMORU has no price and no build behind it. Where should it sit?

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