Your Words And Ours
Privacy
What we hold, why we hold it, and how you take it back.
The short version
We hold your name, a way of reaching you, and whatever you choose to write here. We sell it to nobody, ever, at any price. Write to us and a real person reads back what we hold, changes a word of it, or takes it away.
Your vow belongs to you
The words you write to your child are yours. They are stored the way you wrote them, down to the spaces, and they are read by nobody here.
You decide who ever sees them and when. Your child receives them on the day you hand them over — at fourteen, at sixteen, or from a frame in your hallway. Until you say so, they stay closed.
The Two Of You
The Two Of You is written without your name on it. What the two of you say in there is kept apart from everything else we hold, so it belongs to nobody but you — which is also why it is read back to nobody, here or anywhere.
Anything you would rather we let go of, write and say so, and a real person sees to it.
What we ask for, and why
Your name, so a letter can say it. An address, so a letter can reach you. When your baby is due, so we can put you in a room with parents arriving at the same moment. Beyond that we ask for none of it, and beyond that we hold none of it.
Money
Payment is handled by Stripe, who are very good at it. Your card number never touches this business. We see that you paid, and the last four digits, and that is the whole of it.
Letters
We write to you about the room you are in and the work you are doing. We count no opens and track no clicks, so a letter you leave unread is a letter nobody notices. Every letter carries one line to stop them.
Taking it back
Write to wepromise@itoshigo.family and ask. All of it comes down within seven days, and a real person answers you rather than a form. Your vow is yours to take with you, in a file you keep.
If your circumstances change
Some pregnancies end. Your vow stays exactly where it is, closed, belonging to you, for as long as you want it — and it comes down the moment you ask, with no explanation owed to anybody.
Written to be read once and understood.
wepromise@itoshigo.family
Every child arrives carrying a wonder that belongs to no other person who has ever lived.
Every child arrives carrying a wonder that belongs to no other person who has ever lived.
Every child arrives carrying a wonder that belongs to no other person who has ever lived.
Every child arrives carrying a wonder that belongs to no other person who has ever lived.
Every child arrives carrying a wonder that belongs to no other person who has ever lived.
Every child arrives carrying a wonder that belongs to no other person who has ever lived.
Every child arrives carrying a wonder that belongs to no other person who has ever lived.